What’s a friend?
Today we throw the term around casually, even “friending” people we don’t know on social media. (Where’s the intimacy and trust?)
We’ve gotten comfortable disconnecting words and feelings, with technology (people) taking it to ever-evolving limits.
So what’s a person seeking genuine friendship to do?
That’s easy… keep it simple.
Make connections the old-fashioned way; be open, yet discerning.
Expand your reality and create relationships based on common interests. Don’t push anything and control your needs. You can’t force the truth.
Also, if you develop solid boundaries and have standards that honor your self-worth, you can neutralize the fear that keeps most people from growing.
Engaging others shouldn’t be anxiety-inducing. On the contrary, you should be exhilarated by the unknown, eager to explore what could be valuable personal connections.
However, don’t neglect the origin of genuine friendship.
Everything starts with self, and it’s here you’ll gain the insight and wisdom to imbue your friendships with the requisite quality you deserve.
Take care,
Gary
